Are you worried that he might never come back?
If you’ve recently broken up or he has been distant lately, it can be hard to tell if he’s ever going to return.
Though there is no surefire way to know for certain, there are most definitely signs that may indicate he will not come back.
Here are 13 signs he will never come back and why it’s important to pay attention to them:
1. He doesn’t care about your feelings
If he isn’t expressing empathy for how you’re feeling or doesn’t make time for you, it could be a sign that he isn’t interested in having a relationship with you anymore.
As sad and heartbreaking as it is, when a guy stops caring, that’s a very solid sign he won’t be back.
There’s a tiny chance he might be back in the very distant future, but it’s not looking good.
2. He has stopped communicating with you
If he used to communicate often and now barely ever responds, it could indicate that he is no longer interested in being a part of your life.
Not only that, but it might mean he has completely lost interest.
I mean, there is also a small chance that he might just be trying to control or manipulate you by making you feel ignored…
But even if he was – how does this type of behavior make you feel?
Not very good, right?
So even though you might feel attached to him (all feminine women attach to a man they’ve been with, especially in a committed relationship), know that you’re attached to the wrong guy.
And it’s still possible for you to detach in time.
3. He doesn’t make any effort to fix the relationship
When a relationship starts going downhill, if someone still wants to be a part of it they will likely take steps towards making things better.
Even the most awkward or clumsy man would try his best to make it work.
He’d try to send a nice message or attempt to touch you on the shoulder. He’d definitely do something.
If he isn’t doing anything at all, then it could mean he has already decided not to come back.
4. He avoids seeing or talking to you in person
If he is avoiding face-to-face conversations or interactions, then this could suggest that he does not want an intimate connection with you anymore.
Whether he’s avoiding you out of guilt, hurt, contempt or simply indifference, avoidance is not a good thing.
If you’re going to have any kind of real relationship with him, then you’d need to make an effort in person.
Would you like to find out how likely he is to commit to you emotionally? You can find out with our quick and easy quiz…
5. Unreachable phone number/email address
If your attempts at contact are going unanswered, then chances are he doesn’t want to answer.
It could mean he isn’t interested in talking to you anymore or he has changed his contact information and doesn’t want you to have it.
Either way, it’s not a good sign if your efforts are being completely ignored.
I know it hurts.
I know you feel out of control. But try to see it for what it is and give yourself the chance to adjust to it, because the earlier you allow yourself to adjust, the quicker you can move on – and with more to give the next man.
6. He avoids (or resents) any serious conversations
If he is always avoiding serious topics or heavy conversations then it could mean that he doesn’t want to have any kind of meaningful relationship with you.
It could also mean that he doesn’t care enough about the relationship anymore, or it might be a sign that he is keeping his distance and just wants to keep things light.
Also, if his avoidance is tainted with resentment, that’s a sign he’s had enough or feels like he cannot fix anything.
MORE: 9 Unusual Ways to Get Him Interested Again FAST.
7. He no longer talks about the future
If your conversations don’t include any mention of the future, this could show signs that he isn’t planning on being around for much longer.
This can often be difficult to accept, but try and remember – if something isn’t meant to last forever, then it may as well not last at all.
8. He no longer compliments you
This is one of the sure signs he will never come back – especially if he used to compliment you a lot.
It’s not just a sign that he doesn’t care about you anymore, but also that he no longer sees the good in you.
If he used to tell you how beautiful or funny you were, and now there are no signs of this kind of behavior – it could be a sign that your relationship has reached its end.
If someone really loves you, they will make an effort to make you feel special with compliments and other signs of admiration.
If these signs suddenly disappear, then this could suggest that something has changed for him too.
Don’t forget that any attuned man who cares about your relationship has probably learned that compliments are valuable to you as a woman.
(The feminine thrives on praise, and so compliments likely light you up and he would have probably noticed that in the past.)
As such, if he no longer wants to see your feminine side or make you feel special, he simply doesn’t care.
By the way, would you like to discover how naturally feminine you are actually? You can do that with our quick and easy quiz.
9. He continues to date (or flirt) with other people
This is another giveaway sign that should never be ignored – if he keeps flirting or dating other women, then it is likely that his attention is heavily divided and he’s not actually committed to you.
He probably has no intention of coming back in the near future, but knowing men, there’s still a chance he will in the distant future, because that’s what a lot of men do.
But by then, you may have moved on to a man who can take good care of you. All parts of you – not just the parts that are convenient for him.
Nevertheless, if he still wants to explore other options then he likely doesn’t want to be held down in a relationship.
In this case, the best thing you can do is focus on yourself and ensure you are taking care of your own needs first.
9. You start to feel disconnected from him emotionally
If it feels like you’ve lost the strong emotional connection you once had and there is a disconnect between the two of you, this could be signs he will never come back.
It might feel like he has one foot out of the door already, or that he isn’t invested in your relationship anymore – either way, if a man doesn’t care for you emotionally then he won’t stay for long.
This is why it’s so important to check in with yourself and pay attention to signs such as these.
Now, if you still have some level of rapport with him, it’s possible that you can try to rekindle the emotional connection, and there are two fast-track ways to try this – if you want to.
- The first way is through using your high value vulnerability. (You can learn more about how high value vulnerability triggers him to want to commit to you by clicking here).
- You can use the dark feminine art of high value banter. One little known way to emotionally connect with a man is through high value banter. What is high value banter? It’s the art of engaging and playful conversation where you tease each other. It’s like a game of tennis where you bounce the ball to each other, and that’s why men love banter. Because it’s a challenge, and because it’s how guys show each other that they care. If you’d like some free examples of high value banter, take D.Shen’s FREE high value banter class here.
Although it’s normal to feel emotionally disconnected with your man even inside of a close, committed relationship, if you reach out and there’s crickets – that’s a bad sign.
So you have to look deep within and ask yourself whether you’ve felt emotionally disconnected from him, and if this has been going on for a long time already.
I know this can be painful and challenging at first, but addressing your feelings honestly can help you decide what kind of future you want for yourself – one filled with love or one devoid of it.
10. Everything between the two of you feels forced and awkward
If you feel like your conversations or interactions with him are stilted or forced, then it’s one of the signs he will never come back.
If it feels awkward and unnatural when the two of you talk (even briefly) then this might be an indicator that he no longer wants to invest his time in you anymore – particularly if this feeling has been consistent over a long period of time.
The good news is that by learning how to awaken his masculine fire and use high value banter, you can quickly reconnect with him on an emotional level and rekindle the flame between you both.
Or if not, at least you will have tried everything possible to make things work before deciding to move on.
11. He doesn’t invite you out with his friends and family anymore
When a man is serious about you, he naturally wants to include you in all parts of his life.
If your guy is no longer willing to bring you around the people closest to him, it’s a sign he may never come back.
This is a heartbreaking reality for you, but try to remember that sometimes, a relationship isn’t meant to be.
12. He stops making an effort with his appearance and hygiene when around you.
It’s normal for a man to get comfortable with you after a while of being together, but if he has completely stopped taking care of himself when he’s around you, it could be one of the top signs he will never come back.
…Why?
Well, because he doesn’t feel like it matters.
13. He refuses to talk about what happened or why the relationship ended.
A healthy breakup requires communication from both sides in order for it to be resolved.
If he’s not willing to talk about it, then it’s an indication that he isn’t open to trying again and possibly coming back.
By the way, if he’s always been like this (and didn’t just do this during the breakup), it could also be a sign tat he has an avoidant attachment style.
You can read more about that here.
14. He blocks you on social media.
This is always a major red flag, and it’s one of the signs he will never come back that should be taken seriously.
If he’s completely blocked you (or if he’s constantly deleting your comments or blocking hashtags) it’s pretty clear that he wants nothing to do with you anymore and doesn’t want any contact with you in the future.
15. You feel like a burden around him
If your natural intuition tells you that being around him feels like a chore for him instead of an enjoyable experience, then this could be a sign he will never come back.
As hurtful as this is, ask yourself this:
How much more does it hurt to know that someone sees spending time with you as a chore?
Conclusion
If you notice several of the above signs he will never come back, it’s time to evaluate your feelings and decide what kind of future you want for yourself.
It can be difficult and painful at first, but being honest with yourself will help you make a decision that’s right for you in the long run.
Take some time to process your emotions, cry if necessary and then take steps to move forward in life – on your own terms. You are worth it!
These signs he will never come back can be heartbreaking and difficult to accept but ultimately they’re signs that it may be time to move on and find someone who truly appreciates all of the beauty, strength, and love that you have to offer.
So don’t give up hope – instead focus on your own happiness and well-being by investing in yourself, surrounding yourself with supportive friends and family, taking care of your health, finding joy in the little things, and allowing yourself to be vulnerable.
In time you will find someone who is truly deserving of your love.
Remember – life is short, so don’t waste it waiting for someone who doesn’t appreciate you!
Penny is a writer and part time dating coach. She lives in Brisbane, Queensland with the love of her life, their two daughters and their three dogs. Penny is passionate about helping women realize their high value and harness the innate feminine energy that they were born with.